I am one week out from the conversation with STBXH, and aside from a few logistical texts, we have had no contact.
I luckily found a room to rent from a family friend, for at least a few months to a year, while I sort out everything out, and adjust my budget to be able to afford a place on my own.
A week out, it's still sinking in, the gravity of it all. It's such a big life change that was made without even the time to prepare a safety net. I know I will be okay, but it's still daunting.
After the moving is the actual starting of filing https://onlinedivorcer.com/county-specific-resources/washington-state/divorce-in-clark-county. So far, it seem like we jut want it done, and he said he will sign whatever he has to.
